there's a belief that i hold on to. that is
"long lasting friendship can only b built outside of sch time,not during sch or training"
which has proven me thus far true. only with the talk cock, and just plainly doing nothing sessions that i had with my sec sch friends did i have a bunch of long lasting friendship (with maintenance of course)
and in my jc and uni times.
just being classmates, and sch mates, and team mates doesnt bring the personal friendship relationship far.
as like how i am disappointed/sad/feeling something is missing with my batch of girls in db. like. everyone is just sch training home. (i mean home is very impt, i cant fault them on that) but there's always time to chill out and talk cock abit. but we dont ever have such a thing for a long period of time. no. i can say precisely no. and i m sad abt it.
i foresee graduating from SMU without a grp of real friends. no long lasting friendships with these grps of girls. our friendship is only contextual, only during that part of the time when we are all in one organization per se. i just dont see it going far.
hasnt it been so for all of us. we only noe some ppl as far as we are in the same organization. and nth else more personal. say in the coming work life. who dare say that they will be very good friends with their colleagues personally. i wonder.
sorry if i have offended anyone, but that's what i think.
